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25 reasons I’m not taking part in the Facebook 25 Things meme

February 5th, 2009  |  communication, design, social web, trends  |  12 Comments

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  1. I just don’t get the appeal. No offense intended to the multitudes of my Facebook friends already on this bandwagon, but how is this any different than that old, oft-forwarded email “how well do you know me” survey? I didn’t like that either.
  2. I’m pretty used to talking about myself online already. Maybe that’s where I’m having difficulty with the concept of this being anything new?
  3. It’s sort of spammy. Technically speaking, this isn’t that different from the type of email I filter from my inbox everyday.
  4. “You’ve been tagged in a note.” No way? Really, a text-based note?!? I do have all these pressing Lil Green Patch invitations to deal with… but count me in! Seriously, folks, passing text files around online is SO last millenium. Why not just fax it?
  5. After being tagged, I’m supposed to tag another 25 innocents. It’s only missing the threat of quick death or tragic luck if I don’t comply.
  6. I hate being told I have to do something. Not the best way to motivate me.
  7. Tagging isn’t even an appropriate term. Tagging, especially on Facebook, implies the person is included in the item (like a photo or video). Targeting is more accurate.
  8. If you want comments on stuff you write why not start a blog? I guarantee it will be more fulfilling.
  9. I like Artist/Celebrity/Politician X. This isn’t that different from the stuff in the rest of your Facebook Profile. It’s also not a “random” fact about you.
  10. I don’t like Artist/Celebrity/Politician X. See #9.
  11. Most of the lists break down after the first 10 things. Then it’s all downhill.
  12. It takes too much time. Let’s say that composing this thing and choosing who to tag takes an average of 10 minutes. That’s a conservative estimate. Time reports that an estimated 5 million of these notes (125 million facts) have appeared within the past week. That’s about 800,000 hours wasted!
  13. Can’t we find a better use of our time? Pick up litter, play catch with an orphan, fix the economy… Anything?
  14. It’s hard work. Memes are supposed to be fun and easy to replicate. That’s why they become memes in the first place.
  15. I don’t use Facebook for this sort of thing. Outside of the bounds of certain Facebook Applications, I don’t really us the network to communicate with small groups of people simultaneously. Notes sent to a handful of people (compared with just posting it to your profile for all to see) are a sloppy way to share information. To paraphrase George Michael, “Facebook is natural. Facebook is fun. Facebook is best when it’s one on one.”
  16. It doesn’t leave much opportunity for further discussion. What am I supposed to say, “Wow, I didn’t know you got arrested for THAT? Cool.” Despite the ability to comment, it’s still a fairly one-sided exercise.
  17. TMI. I really don’t need to know some most of this stuff.
  18. It blurs the already blurry line between professional and personal followers. Haven’t we learned about the pitfalls of sharing too much on Facebook? After carefully removing all the photos of your college keg party adventures, do you really want a written account of intimate, personal confessions for future employers to find?
  19. Why is this even being called a meme? Simply because millions of Facebook users are doing it? Does that mean status updates and profile pic changes are memes too? Perhaps we’re overusing this very specific term.
  20. If 25 of your friends jumped off a bridge, would you follow suit? Didn’t think so.
  21. OK, I’m looking for filler now.
  22. I got tagged in 5 more of these things while writing this post. Honestly.
  23. This is exhausting.
  24. Seriously?
  25. 25 things is a lot. Who came up with that? Whatever happened to the good-old top-10 list?

What do you think? Comment below, then copy and paste into a word processing document, photocopy and hang on every telephone pole within a 10 block radius of your primary residence.

UPDATE 2/7: I’m not alone here. It seems more coverage of this phenomenon is starting to emerge. Case and point: ValleyWag (‘25 Random Things’ Lists Are Last Vestige of American Literacy), Washington Post (We Never Do Random Things. Until We Do), Baltimore Internet Examiner (25 Things – The modern day chain letter), and the Dallas Morning News (Millions expose themselves online with ‘25 random things’).


Tags: facebook, irony, rant

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I’ve been holding out as well.

Dylan on February 5th, 2009 at 11:07 pm

I wonder how much of this, uh, trend can be blamed on many Facebookers’ relative unwillingness to disappoint their “friends.” You know the type: Those who accept any friend request from anyone they’ve ever even looked at — and many they haven’t. People who get poked and always just poke right back. Folks who simply cannot ignore that new Bumper Sticker someone threw at them. Or is it goats that get thrown? You know what I mean.

Mike Keliher on February 7th, 2009 at 12:11 pm

I cant agree more. My favorite part is that, with 30 seconds of looking at the persons profile, you could find out at least 20 of the 25, and much more. Its like “lets use the super great tool for something that it already does, but in a different and more low-tech way”. Bugs the crap out of me.

Mitchell Hislop on February 7th, 2009 at 12:17 pm

I’m not a fan of the 25 Things either, but who cares? If people want to do it, let ‘em.

It’s probably worth noting that most of the folks taking part in this thing aren’t your typical bloggers. They don’t blog (or rarely blog), so they don’t have an outlet for this sort of thing. 25 Things comes along, and hey, that sounds like fun.

It’s also worth noting that the popularity of it kills some of your arguments. “It’s hard work,” “It’s not how you use Facebook,” “It takes too much time,” yet 5 million people have done it.

Also, the general population of Facebook isn’t exactly very tech savvy. I don’t think I’ve ever seen the tagging feature in Notes used for what its original intention–it’s almost always used as a way to get people to read what you wrote. I tagged you, therefore you should read it. Dumb? Yes. But that’s just how Facebookers use it.

The masses have spoken.

Kevin D. Hendricks on February 7th, 2009 at 12:23 pm

Wish I had read this BEFORE I did my 25 list. Pretty funny!

Cheryl Smith on February 7th, 2009 at 12:31 pm

You know I love you guys ;) but I agree with Kevin- who cares if people do it? Why would participating in this make someone less…I don’t know… less of anything? I did it, and I guess I’m not sure why- I was kind of bored one night and the rest of my family had done it, and I read all of their posts. I was interested to see what things they want other people to know about them. And if other people don’t want to read it, that’s alright. Am I less “tech-savvy” for having done it? I think that’s kind of ridiculous to say.

And is someone really going to be irritated with you for not doing it? I definitely wouldn’t. Also, I didn’t follow the directions well, because I tagged people who I wrote about in the note. I didn’t tag 25 people because I assumed 25 random people wouldn’t care. But I thought that some of the people I did write about, and then some of my closest friends/family who also had participated, might care to read it. I guess in my mind, tagging them doesn’t necessarily obligate anyone to read it, and if they didn’t want to, big deal.

Although I do agree with many of the things you said, Mykl. And I normally ignore most application requests and other notes I see. So I don’t really know what motivated me to participate… hm.

Liz on February 7th, 2009 at 12:47 pm

Loving the discussion this has generated. Thanks everyone, especially Kevin & Liz for their excellent points and helping to share the “other side” of the story. For the record, I’m not against it. Just puzzled as to why it’s captured the attention of so many.

Mykl Roventine on February 7th, 2009 at 1:06 pm

You know what, I am in with you there. It is pretty wild how many people felt compelled to participate!

Liz on February 7th, 2009 at 2:31 pm

If you really want to get annoyed, I think some of the other notes flying around Facebook are even more inane, like the different kind of names or the iTunes one. Ug. At least the 25 Things one had potential to be interesting.

And Liz, I didn’t mean doing the meme made you less tech-savvy, I just meant non-tech-savvy people are frequently doing it, so something like tagging isn’t likely to be understood in the same way as a tech-savvy crowd would see it.

Kevin D. Hendricks on February 7th, 2009 at 11:07 pm

You had me at #1.

I just don’t get it and it’s annoying.

God, I agree with you completely.

Alana Taylor on February 8th, 2009 at 2:57 pm

Ha. I tried this but I couldn’t get past #2.

1. I think I’ve seen this chain email before. Yep… yes… I have. Don’t a bunch of orphans get sacrificed if I don’t forward this to enough people?

2. I’m kind of anti-social.

Ok, so I never tried this.

Josh on February 11th, 2009 at 1:38 pm

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